Intentional Prayer: Part 2 {Praying For Your Spouse}

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Earlier this week I began this 4-part series on Intentional Prayer. The first two parts are geared more towards the married crowd and those who have kids, but I will be finishing this series next week with two areas that everyone should be able to connect with. Just a heads up, so stick with me!

Here’s Part 1 if you missed it —> Intentional Prayer: Part 1 {Praying For Your Children}.


Today we are diving into Part 2 which is about praying for your spouse. This plan is designed to guide you through praying the “Fruit of the Spirit” for your spouse over the course of one year.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. ~Galatians 5:22-23 {ESV}

There are nine “fruits” this verse talks about, so the idea is to focus on praying about one “fruit” per month. I have included a simple prayer to go along with each fruit/month. Since there are only nine fruits and twelve months, the last three months repeat three of the fruits that I think pertain the most to marriage {even though they all really do}—The prayers for these three months are geared specifically as strengthening your marriage.

I have organized everything in a chart, and there is a printable version of it below so that you can use it as a reference throughout the year. Use it in whatever way works for you but here’s one idea:

Start keeping a prayer journal if you don’t already do so. Dedicate a certain part of your journal to Spouse/Marriage. Cut out the chart below, and then each month paste the card of the month into the Spouse/Marriage part of your journal. Underneath the card, write down things God reveals to you as I pray throughout the month, ways you see your prayers being answered, bible verses that pertain to that month’s fruit, and so on. You will probably be amazed at how God moves through your prayers. 


A Year Long Guide To Praying The ‘Fruit Of The Spirit’ For Your Spouse


[Fruit: Love]

Prayer: Dear Lord, Help _______ to experience your love in a real way and allow that love to flow through him/her for all the days of his/her life.


[Fruit: Faithfulness]

Prayer: Dear Lord, Give _______ a passion to live purely in all areas of his/her life and develop a character of integrity within him/her.


[Fruit: Joy]

Prayer: Dear Lord, Fill _______ with an everlasting joy that comes from being filled with Your Spirit.


[Fruit: Gentleness]

Prayer: Dear Lord, Help _______ to extend the same grace towards others that You extend toward us.


[Fruit: Peace]

Prayer: Dear Lord, Allow _______ to experience the peace that passes all understanding which comes from trusting in You through all seasons of life.


[Fruit: Self-Control]

Prayer: Dear Lord, Lead _______ to live a disciplined and balanced life spiritually, emotionally and physically.


[Fruit: Patience]

Prayer: Dear Lord, Supply _______ with the patience needed to endure hardships, trials and times of waiting.


[Fruit: Love (in marriage)]

Prayer: Dear Lord, Teach my Husband/Wife and I to love each other passionately, unconditionally and in a way that leads us to a deeper intimacy with You.


[Fruit: Kindness]

Prayer: Dear Lord, Help ________ to be slow to anger and quick to show kindness and compassion to all.


[Fruit: Peace (in marriage)]

Prayer: Dear Lord, Remove any seeds of quarrelsome and bitterness in my marriage, and help us to live at peace with each other.


[Fruit: Goodness]

Prayer: Dear Lord, Equip _______ to do good works for Your Kingdom, remind him/her that Your plans for his/her life are good and protect him/her from the evil he/she faces along the way.


[Fruit: Faithfulness (in marriage)]

Prayer: Give my Husband/Wife and I the strength to stand up to the temptations of this world, and guard our hearts and minds in you so that we might enjoy the blessings of a pure marriage.



Do you have a prayer request? Visit the Prayer Pocket to submit your request. 

Many Blessings,

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(C) 2014 Pocketful of Motherhood


4 thoughts on “Intentional Prayer: Part 2 {Praying For Your Spouse}

  1. I’m so excited to start doing this!!! I have had a journal since I was 10 and always at least 6 different ones about different things. I’ve never heard or thought about a prayer journal! Can you give me more details!!?? Xo

    • I’ve always been a journal type of person too 🙂 I’m thrilled to hear that you want to keep a prayer journal and I would be more than happy to give you some ideas about it. Would it be okay if I email so I can write a little more than a few sentences? If you send me an email to:

      …then I can send you back an email with some ideas!!

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